OC,

I’m so sorry for you and your kids. As an observer, I think you need to keep your distance. I do think she is using you and your goodwill for money. I know it’s hard to see her struggle, so do your best to not watch her train wreck. Your d Sees the day to day. How is she coping? Agree XW should not be using your d’s car. How are the boys?


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving