Hi Irish , I've been following along and exw seems to have read the mlcers handbook from cover to cover.

Your rejection of couples counselling was a slap in the face to
her so she read the handbook and reacted like a spoilt child.

My own take on the whole sitch is the pressure / stress on the girls. This whole thing is extremely tough on them and in my very humble opinion they should be allowed live their lives without this spectre hang over them daily. If EXW is indeed a student of the mlcer handbook then exw has a long long way to go and even then who knows. The girls list is more than resonable to the average joe but to exw its mount Everest x 100 right now.

Again just my humble opinion.

Take care , Rd