And then there is OM. I am not sure what to say about him and that R because it's quite unclear. Am I having an A? Maybe. I guess it depends on who you ask and how you define it. Does he consume my thoughts? No. Am I in a "fog" or imagining it is something better? No. Am I leaving my H for another man? No. Not at all. My R with him is what it is and I am just allowing it to be more information. It is another piece in the puzzle. It's not as if I think he would be a better match for me, or that I think I know him all that well. I actually don't think that at all and if anything my H brings so much more to the table. I get that.
Blu,
Inquiring minds want to know; what do you get from the OM? Or maybe a better question is, what's the attraction to the OM? Do you two swap slobber or do you just talk? Are you going to be on the cover of one of the tabloids at the grocery store checkout?
