Your boundary is not contacting OM while she is in the house. But you are okay if she contacts him outside of the house? Are you okay with an open marriage?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving