Any advice 4

[gw5263]

I am joe. I’ve tried. I’ve tried hard. She is a completely different person with a completely different mentality now. She told me last week that if OM broke it off she’d date someone else vs working us out. She has several strays messaging her and hitting on her. I’m nondoctor, but from what I’ve read it almost sounds like a MLC. She is 47 years old so I guess it’s possible. She has no plan for post D other than to say she’ll just figure it out...... I’m at a loss and ready to let it go and just worry about the kids and myself. She can fend for herself