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Losing her WiFi access was the best I could come up with at the time. The options were limited. I can’t put her out and she will not leave on her own. In my state as long as there is no domestic violence and her name is also on the deed I can’t put her out or change the locks. Losing her WiFi access was the best enforcement of my boundary. Without it she cannot text or FaceTime him while in the house. She will have to go out and up the road to do this. To me it is disrespectful to me, our home , and our children for her to hole up in a room for two hours at a time, ignoring the kids, to talk to this a$&hole. If I am wrong someone please tell me because I feel so restricted in what I can use as a boundary and a consequence. To me, losing her WiFi access is a consequence of violating my boundary. We live way out in the country and WiFi is basically how we get everything- tv, internet, etc. I pay all the bills and I will not allow her to use something I pay for to have video sex with OM for an hour or two. She will not use our home as her A base. As I said, if I’m wrong please tell me.