Yep; I did notice your post after my phone conversation with WW. I do understand your point. It is defiantly hard seeing the game when your in it. I am trying my best to understand myself and how I used to get manipulated by her. I am however learning to deal with integrity and respect; and for some reason when I did read her text I did tell myself, she is someone who is part of my life and want to ensure her 'safety'. I am learning and leaning on this whole NGS and trying to deal with it.
This very well could have been some form of control on her part (temp-checking), and I did mess up. But life is full of experiences.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
Waking up this morning, I just feel like such a fool for getting dragged into that conversation yesterday by WW. She totally played me I feel like. There were no relationship talk, but I did share more that I should of about my family and grandparents and stuff. When I look back, I can tell it was a temp check; she did so much of the talking.
Then after she texted me the thank you text, I stupidly responded with "Your life is more important that the ch!t we are in"...
Gosh, why did I do that.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
Yea; I guess. But of course I just snooped on the phone records and noticed WW called OM the past couple of days; and also yesterday after speaking with me. I’m done with her games. She lied to me a month ago with her texts saying she was done with OM in her life. And she also lied to me when she called about her sisters birth problems.
Absolutely NC from here on out until she becomes humble or until I break and become the WAS. This round about stuff is so annoying.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1