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sandi2 #2768041 11/13/17 11:34 AM
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Yep; I did notice your post after my phone conversation with WW. I do understand your point. It is defiantly hard seeing the game when your in it. I am trying my best to understand myself and how I used to get manipulated by her. I am however learning to deal with integrity and respect; and for some reason when I did read her text I did tell myself, she is someone who is part of my life and want to ensure her 'safety'. I am learning and leaning on this whole NGS and trying to deal with it.

This very well could have been some form of control on her part (temp-checking), and I did mess up. But life is full of experiences.


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chris19 #2768042 11/13/17 11:38 AM
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And queue the thank you text from her...

"thanks for calling and showing that you cared".

Now, this I do not need to respond to.


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chris19 #2768099 11/14/17 03:35 AM
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Waking up this morning, I just feel like such a fool for getting dragged into that conversation yesterday by WW. She totally played me I feel like. There were no relationship talk, but I did share more that I should of about my family and grandparents and stuff. When I look back, I can tell it was a temp check; she did so much of the talking.

Then after she texted me the thank you text, I stupidly responded with "Your life is more important that the ch!t we are in"...

Gosh, why did I do that.


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chris19 #2768103 11/14/17 03:51 AM
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You did that because you're a decent human being and you care. Don't beat yourself up.


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EastTN #2768106 11/14/17 03:59 AM
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Yea; I guess. But of course I just snooped on the phone records and noticed WW called OM the past couple of days; and also yesterday after speaking with me. I’m done with her games. She lied to me a month ago with her texts saying she was done with OM in her life. And she also lied to me when she called about her sisters birth problems.

Absolutely NC from here on out until she becomes humble or until I break and become the WAS. This round about stuff is so annoying.


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