WW in EA, NC w/OM(?), W's BFF interfering, part 7

[hoosjim]

Doodler, thanks. My apologies if I gave the impression that we had been discharged by MC-- we have not. In fact, as I think i mentioned above, she has indicated we still have a lot of work to do and we have specific homework assignments outstanding with her right now, which W sometimes shows strong interest in completing, and at other times lets languish. Right now she's somewhere in middle WRT those... showing interest but not being very committed/determined about it (though work and our kids' struggles are playing a significant time-demand role, there). More recently with MC, she has also been receptive to MC's message that "things can be fixed", but of course is not certain how that will happen with us... but she seems willing to try (she was the one who initiated work on the latest homework a couple of weeks back, and she also requested i obtain an extra copy of a particular book for her so she could highlight what she thought was important in it and we could compare notes). However, our "work" of late (3 weeks since last MC session) has kind of tapered off, and that is why I was asking Sandi how much, if at all, she thought I should nudge my wife in that direction.

Also, as I posted, while I get little twinges of doubt here and there, if she IS still contacting OM, it is so far underground that I don't know how I would actually find out about it. I have no concrete reasons to think she is back cheating.