I’m sorry you are here. Good thing you have a coach. Listen to his advice. If your H is in monster mode, let him go. Focus on yourself and your kids. You have teens. They know what is going on and need you to be the stable parent. H does not seem responsible or reliable at present. Keep a diary of your childcare vs his childcare. If you haven’t consulted a L, then you may want to do so to know your rights. Back to you: what did you do to contribute to the failure of your M? Change those things for you and your future R with H or someone else. GAL. Are there parts of yourself that you put aside for M? What are your interests?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
