Hey Sotto, always good to hear from you. Acceptance is definitely different than forgiveness, but it sure has set me free quite a bit and certainly helps with detachment.
My H seems to be very pleased with himself and his choices. He jokes around a lot and is very chipper. Sometimes I find it really annoying, and sometimes it stings. Then I feel bad that I don't want him to be happy....it's a weird thing. I may feel different if he at least showed some sort of remorse....but who knows. All I know is that I would not want to be his face in the mirror. Our S is the 1 and only reason I put it all aside.
Take care Sotto xxoo
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-