Adding this note because it concerns W's willingness to work on the intimacy/physicality issue: Today after she came home from work, she went and got one of the resources MC recommended on intimacy-- I know because when I went up to bedroom a little bit ago she was reading it. Now, in the past, she would do things like this as sort of a "make up" when she had seen or been talking to OM... and there have been a couple of little things the last couple of days that have set my mind back to spinning again, like her getting home VERY late from work today (8 PM-- though she did call at 6:30 and again when she was leaving) but, like I said, if she is back up to no good, she is being VERY clever/discrete about it. She did not offer to discuss it with me or anything (which is what MC had suggested we do, so maybe she's waiting for ME to suggest doing so?)
Anyway, additional color for my above questions.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
