Wow M so she comes out of hybernation. Do you think this could be a major temp check to see where you stand? It kinda sounds like it to me. I also don't think she is sure what she wants and I am not sure she done with the MR yet either.
If she initiates the conversation whats wrong with engaging in the R talks? What is wrong with telling her how you feel? I am not talking about all the lovey dovey stuff and I want you back, I love you, etc. Just a matter of fact conversation about how you honestly feel, what would need to change, etc? You still have no proof of OM correct?
Not saying this is correct but something to think about.
