Agree—why focus on these negative anniversaries? If you can’t erase it from your mind, why not create a new memory? The first time I went skydiving or something.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving