Originally Posted By: Nrthman

Now my Question??

What else can I do?


DB'ing is all about baby steps. You are seeing some nice baby steps. So keep doing what you're doing! Remember the squirrel analogy. If you want to feed a squirrel you have to hold the nut out towards it and then hold perfectly still. It will move towards you slowly, but sometimes run away for no reason. Then it'll move towards you again, but as it gets closer if you try to close the distance it'll bolt again. Each time, the process starts all over again. But if you stay still and patient, and let it keep approaching, eventually it will reach you. So keep doing what you're doing and dig down into your well of patience! Any sudden moves like that Cary Grant thing are going to send her running. It doesn't work like the movies.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57