Hi MLeigh, glad to read an update from you and pleased that you are doing well. I loved your list of 4 years after BD - so many positive things. And it sounds as though your H is making some progress too..
I understand what you write about forgiveness & I struggle with this too. I accept what has happened, but I do find it hard to fully let things go, and I would still like to see some regret (or at least acknowledgement that it was an awful thing to do) from XH.
Glad you are thriving though - cope, survive, thrive...good for you.
Xxx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus