25yearsMLC 10 Later I FILE D part 8

[25yearsmlc]

he also texted our d's (out of the blue, I think) to say'

"I love you both very much. I will reach out to you after the divorce."


SMH. Guess when the "unpleasantness" settles and he hopes I'm screwed over, THEN he'll be very generous with them

and then THEY WILL WELCOME the "love of his life" -

or whatever. Bummer is now I can't say he's not reached out to them in over a year...

d20 texted back "lol".

I also wonder if h does not like the outcome, if he'll feel like reaching out so much.

Don't think he reached out to son, who has offered testimony in writing in the brief.

I like to think that h did not read out much the pleading and just signed it, b/c it's too painful to believe he read it and believed it.

Lots of other amazing things but I had to share the "burden" comment b/c it so deeply humiliated me, and so shocked me,

I mean that is some serious darkness.

NOW I can almost see why he'd cancel the life ins policy I paid for - in HIS world, murdering a spouse might be totally reasonable as an option. So he feared it??

Or just wanted to punish. Also accused me of hiding $400k
in a 401k, which is crazy and impossible,

but indicates to ME, that it's something HE would do.

I used to project my positives onto him, way too much

so maybe he projects his negatives onto me.

Whatever. I think it's mudslide time. (The tasty kind, I mean).

Thank you all.