How are you doing? I’m 14 months post b d and have felt many of the same things. W has been back and forth on d but when she decided to go public with OM2 then it was my turn to push the D. I just knew i couldn’t live like this any longer. My d b Coach even told me she may have to D before ever considering R and think she is right. I’m saying that to point out filing for D and wishing to save your M aren’t incompatible, if that makes any sense. Best wishes on making the best choice for you and s14.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving