What should I be doing now? (Filing for D soon)

[Coconut]

She never responded to the question of when she was going to file when I sent the email asking so I texted today asking when. She responded with a lot of excuses about costs of moving. I asked when if I pay for it all, she responded she will file within two weeks. I told her She has two weeks or I will file and she can get a lawyer and take as many trips to NC as it takes to end the M.. I'm done waiting, I didn't want to do it around the holidays but she's already dragged the D along for 4 months and I'm done waiting on her timeline.

I can afford a lawyer and running this through a contemptuous D Is doable and affordable for me, I don't know if she can afford it, and I don't care.

As for the dating site, I wouldn't want a woman in my life that responded to "hey sexy", I expect and know a healthy relationship will take work, but it's nice to know that other W saw enough in me to reach out, but I decided to not respond and just deleted my acct until the D is final. I didn't respond to any of them.