Yeah, good luck to her with trying to re-enter their lives for the 5 hours/week she feels like it. Clearly she needs to turn up the heat in that oven.

Great job flushing out a temp read on her. As I have said before, you are a tank of a man!

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced