Thanks for the advice. I found out it's gone on since Feb, she says not physically until a few weeks ago but I know that's a load of rubbish.
Anyhow, I intend to make some space for myself to start moving forward. I just feel so sorry for my kids, they didn't choose this and now they're stuck with it. Glad I got my new house sorted out for them. It was so tough getting the evidence, it's really taken it out of me, but I can now start to let go and slowly move forward.
