Liam,

Take some time to yourself to digest what your just found out.

Take a self assessment of yourself and how you made have contributed to the downfall of the M.

Give your wife space. Don't bring up the A again. Start to move forward like you said and dont make and hasty decisions yet.

Be strong, dont become revengeful or hateful.

My wife said the same thing your wife said about being in love with OM.

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.