Gordie: MLC W with a BF...negotiating our D #12

[Gordie]

So taking one day at a time. Hopefully w will sign the settlement as soon as tomorrow. What’s bugging me is this: how do I emotionally deal with the fact that stbx is determined to make OM2 a big part of my children’s lives? L said I can’t really do anything about it. I’m worried that my children will think this is normal or that this will damage my R with them? Yet another thing I never thought I’d have to deal with in my life but accepting it is now my reality. How have others faced this challenge?