My idea to separate has been an epic fail

[Caz49]

Thank you Cadet for the info.

I've read the book twice. And I will read the links. I've read some of them in the past but I will go through them again tonight.

I feel like I've been DB for many years but I've recently begun to see an IC and have had 5 sessions. I think I need to work on myself before I can sort my relationship with my H out marriage or divorce. But it doesn't stop the hurt from taking over.