I'm sorry to hear about the negative developments. I can see from your posts over time that your diligence and commitment to yourself and your family is truly admirable.
You are on the right path for yourself and your kids.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017