I'm new and haven't been around to follow your journey but just in reading in your latest update I want to say I'm so sorry for the news about your ex-husband and brother. It sounds like your brother will need your support and his recovery will be your priority in the near future. It sounds like he has a positive attitude and is holding it together but life really isn't fair. I look forward to reading more of your journey and to learning from your experience since it sounds like you're ahead of many of us.
