Every now and then we are all reminded that the dynamics that we had with our former spouses were not always unicorn f@rts and rainbows.
My STBX also manages a probably smaller grocery store but it also has beer and liquor adding on to the complications. She is a smart and capable woman and I was always proud of her accomplishments just like you are of yours.
One of the things that I say these days is "you don't know you were living under a cloud until you walk in the sunshine". I think we both realize that.
Oh - and I heard that there was a big lottery win in Ontario last week. I'm reluctant to check my own tickets until I finally get the signed separation agreement back.