Me: Something you should know.. as of sept 29th, i released you from child support. The entire month of Oct. Was covered. This coming week would have been a paiement schedule.. if i receive anything, i will let you know.otherwise, you should have a full pay without withdraw.
You handle it as you wish.
I no longer feel it is appropriate for me to take it from you as my goal for the future of our kids has been reached. I want to thank you for your HUGE contribution.
No reply.. ( i thought )
A couple of days later, i asked if i was taken off his insurance coverage since nobe of my meds were covered.. again, no reply..
D17 received a text from him accusing me of doing everything i can to make sure he does not see the kids.. like always!! Arrrgggg.. yes, i retaliated:
Me: I am keeping you from seeing the kids?????? Faith was off last week end but you had plans with " a friend" Yet i am to blame??
Who decided to NO LONGER show up?
no, i was not home but the kids were. Yet, i was to blame? You get mad at me for doing everything yet i can' t rely on you. Bashing me will NOT give you positive result cause they know WHO WAS ALWAYS THERE and who said would be there....
I am mad and desappointed in you..
I wish you were in my shoes, doing what i do and threated the way you threat me...
Not " me " ... i should say me and the children.. they suffer your absence too
Again, to my surprise... no reply..
I figured he blocked me..
Then, i got the call i shared with you above. Kind and friendly. Respectful and gratification of my person.. ( very nice )
Tonight, i was cleaning my text messages and fail upon my spam folders.. surprise!!! Ex-h' s response were all there as of oct.19 And here i was, thinking he was very quiet with everyone and back into withdrawl.. hahaha.. i was wrong.
Oct 19th: ex-h:You're an idiot!
Oct 20th: If you think i'm going sit by and watch you move Sarah to a dive,shitty apartment in the sh!tty end of a city based on the wage of working at a grocery store. Your wrong!
Faith will be in college and on her own. Meaning it'll just be you and Sarah living in sturgeon falls and she'll be on her own when you're working. And you think you'll find a decent place based on the salary of working at a grocery store? Maybe where you're now but going to start somewhere new won't be the same pay.
You're stupid that have done that.! It's not all about you Diane . Like always
Now, his response about my insurance claim: You're still on there. And it was stupid of you to stop those withdraws from my pay. It's not all about you and how it makes you feel. It's about the kids and shelter over their heads and food and clothing and a decent place to live. You couldn't have nor can you do that on your own and it's my responsibility as well as yours to ensure they at least have that! And just so you know!! I could have done that on my own either!!! So stop being a stubborn pig headed person.. I couldn't have I mean!
For my e-mail about the visitation, he did not respond..
I' ve restored all of his text.. i do not know why i ended-up in my spam folder. Now,feeling inferiorated once again theough his patronising and name calling, i feel like blocking him fully and completely.. i hate feeling this.
Of course, i had something to say:
All of your text from oct 19th and on were in a spam folders for some reason... weird.. but for the best since you kept patronising me .. i am not stupid and yes, i work at a grocery store.. i' m a business woman, manager and very successful.. i might not make millions but i love what i do..
I was a great, loyal and devoted wife to you. I am a great mother and a very supportive friend when threated with respect.. You are our ( me and the children ) equal... not better, not worst.... just humain..
Quit looking down on us.
And no, it is not about me... it was never about me.. I always put myself LAST!!! and you know that.. my whole family is the opposite of selfishness.. ALL OF US!!
Last edited by job; 11/08/1711:29 PM. Reason: added spaces between paragraphs
