Just checking in:

I'm doing well. Just finished a big project, or, at least I'm almost done.

As far as ex-H:

-More than 60 days clean.
-He started a new job with drug testing passed the initial test. -He was super funny-took some at-home tests, but still worried 43 days clean wasn't enough.
-Just when I think--that's it, we won't hear from him again--he says/does something to renew my confidence.
-We started a four-way text message this week--sorta slowly, SLOWLY allowing him back in the fold. Wary, cautious, but the kids were thrilled to be able to joke and have fun--even via text.
-60 days does not a year make, but taking things slowly-still glad he is in Ohio and we are here.
-Received a very sweet card today-addressed to me-with money for our daughter's class.


"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson