Cnut, sounds like you're doing well so that's good to hear! Regarding the dating sites, I agree with the others, disclose your marital status asap. You should probably even put it in your profile. My experience with the dating sites is that a lot of women will not go out with someone who is still married regardless of how long they've been separated, and I don't blame them. There's too much baggage involved. I've seen a lot of women state right in their profiles "do not contact me if you are still married, no matter how long you've been separated" and others state "do not contact me unless you have been divorced at least two years". I had several women ask me pointed questions about my divorce and I even sent a couple of them a scan of my decree to put them at ease. You may think that sounds picky but a lot of men out there try to jump back into dating way before they are ready, and they don't think about the impact that has on the women they are dating.
