I met with my husband yesterday for an hour. I wanted it time limited and I had my yoga class straight after and a counselling session the following morning, to make sure I was not feeling stressed by meeting with him.
Although I found the meeting confusing rather than stressful. He was nice and very interested in what was going on with my pregnancy, saying he doesn't like that I am going through it without him. He voluntarily agreed to child support, which is helpful so I don't have to go through the agencies. But he is still confused and conflicted about what he is doing and does not seem to be able to make a decision about anything.
The OW does know and has told him he is to have nothing to do with the baby and to ignore it. Which I guess says it all about the person he is with. But that is for him to deal with.
I did end up feeling a bit sad for him and his situation and his obvious confusion, as he has no one to talk to, but I can't help with that. I wasn't expecting to have those feelings, but meeting in person is so different to messaging and emails, so it was helpful to have my appointment with my counsellor in the morning.
I feel positive the meeting is out of the way and I can carry on getting on with things.
