Well H, not something I would say but that is the wonderful things about this world! Looking back are you glad you said what you said? Do you regret it? My W and I didn't speak on our anniversary either. It was kind of weird but I wasn't going to give in and make myself look weak. IMO the right move.
It has slowed down some, I think business picks up during the Summer. Maybe it is easier to drop the bomb then because the kids are out of school For me I am just about 6 months in and I really don't have much to talk about in my sitch. I post for my own benefit so I can follow my journey but there is really no movement so things are stagnant.