Originally Posted By: Tate
Kaizen, there are a couple factors here. First one is my W is very polarized on bedtimes. She will stay up until 2 am one night and get up at 5 am, while other nights she will want to go to bed...and kick everyone out of the living room at 8 pm and sleep until 8 am. I never know what night it is for her. I keep a fairly consistent schedule with bed times and wake times.

I was relaxing with my son(11) in the room. This was the first time my W has told my son that she sleeps on the couch on purpose...she has a long history of falling asleep on the couch.


Come on.

You said this was "usual Friday night drama". Youve posted here several times that W goes to bed early on Fridays and there is an argument about the quietness around her.

To me, being in that room after dinner on Friday night is just looking to stir up trouble.