Kaizen, there are a couple factors here. First one is my W is very polarized on bedtimes. She will stay up until 2 am one night and get up at 5 am, while other nights she will want to go to bed...and kick everyone out of the living room at 8 pm and sleep until 8 am. I never know what night it is for her. I keep a fairly consistent schedule with bed times and wake times.

I was relaxing with my son(11) in the room. This was the first time my W has told my son that she sleeps on the couch on purpose...she has a long history of falling asleep on the couch.


M 17 years
3 kids
EA start 2010
ILYBNILWY 1/2014
PA 1/2016
Bomb drop 2/2016
Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016
Living as roommates, EA continues