Amen to what Sandi said. We have seen so many LBHs here try to do everything to appease the WW and all it does is make things worse. It's like the WW uses them as a doormat, so in response they walk around constantly throwing themselves onto the ground in front of the WW begging them to wipe their feet on them over and over again. So the WW loses what little respect may have been left and is more than happy to wipe all the dog poo off her feet and onto the LBH. And still he asks for more! The recons don't happen until the LBH gets fed up and says "enough, I'm no one's door mat" and goes about the business of getting a life. It doesn't always bring the WW back but more often than not, by the time the LBH gets to that point he's not even sure he wants her back anymore.
