well I told my wife I'll be filing for divorce this week. I have a consultation today and 2 tomorrow to see which lawyer I'm going to choose. My daughter asked me this weekend why Mom and I don't kiss anymore. It's probably the first time that she has expressed that she's noticed. My son has expressed it a few times. I'm still sad about the whole thing and I would much rather my wife would have came around and attempted to work on the marriage but she isn't about to give up her current lifestyle. I would have been much more patient but having my children notice our lack of marriage is upsetting. I know everyone says that filing doesn't mean that its over but I feel that in our case it pretty much is. Once the process starts it will probably get nasty between us, not with the kids but over money and it will make it much harder to recover from then if an attempt was made prior to filing. We still don't fight or anything like that and the home has been very pleasant (cake and eat it too thing)....just no intimacy and it's an almost certain the the affair is still on-going. My journey has been much quicker than everyone else and I applaud the perseverance many of you have.
Me: 43 Wife: 37 2 Kids: (8yr old B, 5yr old G) OM Discovered Mid Aug '17
