That makes perfect sense to me. But the disrespect is the A. And if your willing to forgive, then it's good. But what if the boundary is nonstop cheating? It seems as long as the WW is cheating with no divorce in sight from her H, then she still won't view him as a man worth respecting. In my sitch, I had W leave. But she is still doing her thing most likely, while I try to detach. Not trying to mind read, but one can assume that she is that worried about me doing anything else about the continued behavior.
