BTW, book Love Must be Tough is spot on. Author advises to create a huge crisis early on to disrupt spouses actions. I do wish I had acted more abruptly sooner. As time passes, the impacts of actions decrease. Case in point is a huge reaction upon first finding out about my eifes affair. A huge teaction from me would have shaken her back to reality.
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues
