Neffer:

Thanks for your post. I'm sorry that I'm not up to speed on your sitch. I'll stop my your thread soon. Yes, I think I'm doing a reasonable job being the lighthouse. Aside from a meltdown when I found out about the OM. I strive to be consistent and reliable for my kids. I fulfill all their physical needs, I provide/support their social and spiritual needs/activities. hope I'm meeting their emotional needs too.

I've been blessed that I'm living in the family home with all of my kids. I know so many of us have been "forced" out of their home, etc. My kids and I enjoying each other and they never mention their mom.


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017