Thanks for your post. I'm sorry that I'm not up to speed on your sitch. I'll stop my your thread soon. Yes, I think I'm doing a reasonable job being the lighthouse. Aside from a meltdown when I found out about the OM. I strive to be consistent and reliable for my kids. I fulfill all their physical needs, I provide/support their social and spiritual needs/activities. hope I'm meeting their emotional needs too.
I've been blessed that I'm living in the family home with all of my kids. I know so many of us have been "forced" out of their home, etc. My kids and I enjoying each other and they never mention their mom.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017