Gordie: MLC W with a BF...negotiating our D #12

[SBJ]

Gordie, I am at a total loss for words with regards to what is going on in your world right now. One thing I can promise is that at some point things will change and you will be at more peace. She is being so totally selfish right now and is blinded and ignorant to the fact that what she is doing will have lifelong effects on everyone involved. Our children see how we react and stand for what is right in marriage and will hopefully use our example instead of our MLC'ers example.

I know that things are rough right now, but you are being the rock you need to be for those beautiful kids that God entrusted you with. Release the frustration when you need to and love your kids.

I believe you are correct when saying that God doesn't want to destroy marriages and families, but I do believe that He will use what is happening for good in the future and it will be for His glory. You are in my prayers daily, as are all of my stander friends here, and I believe that our faith will get us thru this storm. I know that in times like this we will question our faith, but keep asking God to show himself to you and your faith will be increased.