AS, thanks on the additional input on recons post-D. I suppose things could change for me in a few years, I just don't see it happening at all, right now.

Btrow, I wasn't able to find any of LCR's threads, but the others were helpful. Here are some links for anyone else who's interested:

RandyH's topics:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=userposts&view=started&id=1283

dday101798's topics (this was a real interesting read for me):
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=userposts&view=started&id=21626

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Starting a new thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2767408#Post2767408

Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.