Not sure if she was trying to make you feel sorry for her. But I think it’s a good thing she is trying to work more to earn more. That’s a good thing for her to do. I do think you should stop mind reading about her motivations. If she wants to communicate something to you, let her do the big girl thing and tell you! Stop placing all the burden on yourself to interpret her clues.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving