25yearsmlc, I am not concerned with the names my W calls me. I was just responding to the ass comment from sandi2. why are you not concerned with how your w speaks to you? For sandi2, details on the couch thing...W asked this time instead of telling me. She almost immediately asked when I was going to be going to bed. I told her 15 minutes and continued hanging out with my son. I moved as I said I would within the 15 minutes. Then, my W sat where I had been sitting and surfed facebook on her phone instead of laying down. After 10 minutes of her surfing FB, I sat back down on that couch. Nearly immediately, my W asked me to move so she could lay down. I got up and tucked our son in.
minutia, squid ink, whatever. You are missing the BIG point we are making.
it's like saying she didn't serve you the cereal you wanted but then she did
oh, and then she threw it out the window saying she hates you b/c she wanted eggs. She disrespects you in your home to your face AND involving the kids.
THIS IS THE PROBLEM^^^^^^^^
not facts in a small scenario in which she probably has a point....but I'm "stuck" on ho bad things are between you that you scavenge for the scraps you can get.
Please don't.
Not sure what else to say.
Please...you must teach your kids to set limits on how they are treated and that often means LEAVING bad treatment.
See the lawyer about the kids. Sue her for divorce, get a TRO on HER, check your rights not just about money, etc.
Not just "what if she leaves..." Many MANY questions...
are you getting IC?? Please do. No shame in it. It'll help your kids!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016