Thanks again for stopping by Sandi!

Originally Posted By: sandi2
Exchanged pleasantries and W said "you're distant" I don't know how to respond to that so I just said "I'm not trying to be"

Example of various responses:
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"Really? Hadn't noticed".

That is brilliant Sandi!

Originally Posted By: sandi2

You did fine. Actually, whenever the WW starts asking what's wrong or accusing you of acting distant, cold, strange, etc..........she is (1) trying to pull you into a relationship talk, or verbal attack; Or (2) she has, or is planning to contact OM and is watching you very closely. That could have been her reason for a quick trip to the store......but not necessarily.

No, she came back with groceries for dinner in the normal amount of time it would take to purchase said groceries.

Originally Posted By: sandi2
Refresh my memory, please........does your W hold down a full time job


She owns her own business and works from home


M50 WW50
T27 M23
D17
D15
EA#1 3/2010
BD 5/2/2017

Trying to make sense out of crazymaking