Originally Posted By: bttrfly
you're dating yourself. you still need to find out who Kyh is post-D. The rest will come when it's supposed to. I firmly believe this. xoxo


Thanks for stopping by:) I liked reading about this on your posts, it gave me a lot to think about. Finding myself yet not losing myself.

Originally Posted By: Gordie
How do you know she was mad at you again? Maybe her moodiness has nothing to do with you? Even if my w acts mad at me or says she is, I have learned over the past year, there’s usually something else and that I am just an easy target.

I too will not be ready to date for a long time, like butterfly says, date Kyh!


It's pretty obvious. she's not monstering but she was upset because she was hurt I didn't invite her. I'm sure a lot of her anger is guilt, pain, frustration, etc. coming out but she had been being more friendly. I also see what you're talking about. Things like her get upset about me buying the kids coats or buying/making Halloween costumes. There's been a few others I can't remember. I'm far enough into this now i usually don't have a knee jerk reaction (or immediately catch it) to her w/these things so they don't escalate or so she doesn't pull my strings.

she seems to be over it now and is being friendly again. This weekend she asked if I could meet a delivery truck at her apt over my lunch because she had to get a new dryer. I agreed but don't know if I should have. She's always telling me of her appliance troubles in addition to her work problems. She also hold me she started cleaning properties for her landlord at nights she doesn't have the kids. I wonder if she was trying to get me to feel sorry for her.