It's tough for sure Huddy. I think the big thing is to replace the big hole that her departure left with some new stuff. Not dating - nothing to do with that. But other stuff that gets you out and about and ideally doing things with others - sports club, book group, dancing model train building - whatever floats your boat really.
Then you start to see that there is a life beyond what has happened, and it has some enjoyable aspects and the hole doesn't feel so big - and you focus a little less on your marital situation and life moves forward some more...
That's what I think anyway Huddy....xx
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus