I didn't even see this post until now. Thank you for asking. I went and a saw a lawyer. And ever since H has been crazy. He keeps assuming I am taking him for everything. He accuses me of this and is just completely unreasonable. Ever since I told him I was over us he has been acting out. He is starting arguments and blaming me. He is calling me names. He told me he is taking me to court over my requests in my separation settlement. He didn't think that he should pay wage percentage wise on our kids extra curricular activities. Because that means he will have to pay everything if I lose my job. He is accusing me of having a bf. I just can't deal with it anymore. His anxiety is thru the roof. He keeps getting nose bleeds and blaming me for agitating him. At this time I am so happy he is not in my life personally at the moment. I don't even know what to think about about any of this. Lol. I finally go and see a lawyer at his request to get things settled and then he goes looney. Although I did have to call him over last night because I found a tick on the dog and didn't know how to deal with it.
So go now in my R I am happy that he is no longer in my life personally. I don't want him back at this point and am moving forward with legal separation.
