Contact from the dark side.

[peacetoday]

I agree with Sotto

You gave her the truth..She says she is NOT giving OM up and you as a wise parent with full custody rights can choose to not want a drug addicted /lowlife OM around your girls
What is the hold he has on her?
Maybe if you cut contact for a while, the pain will wake her up
she wants you to help her to get the girls to accept her lifestyle and she can't see that her lifestyle is not healthy if she is dating a drug addict

I also saw that with my XH who M a psychopath /addict
I never regret for a minute pushing XH out of our business and our lives as he clearly choose drugs/ow over everything and he gave up a lot to live in poverty with OW

She is in a good spot right now with her therapy and this boost of reality may help
her see she can't be the great mom she wants to while with OM

I have high hopes for her