Contact from the dark side.

[Sotto]

Hi Irish, FWIW I think you may be engaging with her too much here. I would step right back and give yourself a break. And if she contacts you again, just let her know - I need a break from this contact XW. I wish you well and hope you continue with the support you are getting now. Best wishes Irish

Or something along those lines. I think the comms you are having may be going around in circles and she clearly isn't ready to give up OM which is also a deal breaker for you guys...

JMHO of course and I hope others weigh in with some helpful input for you xx