One more comment for sandi2...I gaurantee if I leave the house, my wife will call me an a$$.

She has called me an a$$ for not doing the dishes on her timetable, for staying outside working on the house or yard too long, for disagreeing with her on consequences for kids misbehaving, etc.

As previously mentioned, my W was responding the best to me when I did every chore imaginable and accompanied her and the kids on every excursion.

The recent negative turn was from me letting my sister know about my W and my BIL. That is when I stopped receiving any communications from my W during the day, stopped having her at least say goodnight, good morning, have a good day, etc.


M 17 years
3 kids
EA start 2010
ILYBNILWY 1/2014
PA 1/2016
Bomb drop 2/2016
Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016
Living as roommates, EA continues